Anger and Your Driving: How to Cope with Dangerous Emotions

Are you driving under the influence of impairedaggressive driving behavior.
emotions?WHAT CAUSES AGGRESSIVE DRIVING
Dateline: December 4, 2002. Orange County ,California.BEHAVIOR?
A 29 year old man was shot to death, an apparentWhile there is no one standard definition for aggressive
victim of road rage. According to newspaperdriving, many psychologists see anger as the root
accounts, he had a reputation for never backing downcause of the problem. Regardless of the provocation
from a fight.or the circumstances related to problems on the road,
The man and his half brother were heading homeit is ultimately our emotional state, our stress levels and
from a plumbing job when the trouble began.our thinking patterns that either cause us to drive
Apparently, three men in another car zoomed in frontaggressively or lead us to be the victims of others.
of their car. These men started hurling profanities andIn short, many of get us get in trouble because we are
flashing obscene gestures at the brothers, whodriving under the influence of impaired emotions,
returned the insults.especially anger.
Things escalated until a gun was pulled. Rather thanLike drunk driving, aggressive driving is more than a
backing down, the man got out of his car and begansimple action or carelessness; it is a behavioral choice
walking toward the gunman. Two shots rang out,that drivers make.
missing the man who then continued to walk towardIt is normal and natural to feel angry when certain
the gunman until he was shot and killed.events frustrate us on the road. But, how do you deal
While this tragic incidence is illustrative of an extremewith these angry feelings to cope with the situation
case of aggressive driving, there are thousands ofmore effectively?
lesser cases in the United States yearly. According toTWO WAYS TO COPE WITH IMPAIRED DRIVING
he AAA Foundation for Traffic Safety, incidents ofEMOTIONS:
aggressive driving have increased by 7% every yearResearch clearly shows that reducing stress and
since 1990; however, few courts mandate angerchanging your self-talk can help you cope.
management treatment for traffic offenders.1.REDUCE YLUR STRESS. Driving is emotionally
FIVE ZONES OF AGGRESSIVE DRIVINGchallenging because unexpected things happen
Research by Dr. Leon James at the University ofconstantly with which we must cope. We often drive
Hawaii reveals five categories of aggressive driving.under the pressure of time, or the pressure of
Which zone do you or a loved one fall in?congestion and delays which add to our general stress
THE UNFRIENDLY ZONE - Example: closing ranks tolevel.
deny someone entering your lane because youreSuggestions include listening to relaxing music or
frustrated or upset.educational tapes on the road, leaving 15 minutes
HOSTILE ZONE - Example: Tailgating to pressuresooner, and getting up earlier so you are less rushed.
another driver to go faster or get out of the way.2. CHANGE YOUR PERSPECTIVE with different
VIOLENT ZONE- Example: Making visible obsceneself-talk. As a result of earlier life experiences, we all
gestures at another driver.have automatic thoughts that are generated by our
LESS MAYHEM ZONE- Example: Pursuing other carsmind when certain triggers occur when driving. We can
in a chase because of provocation or insult.change our perspective and thus our angry feelings by
MAJOR MAYHEM ZONE - Example: Getting out ofconsciously changing this self-talk. For instance, if cut
the car and beating or battering someone as a resultoff in traffic think something like that jerk may actually
of a road exchange.be a single mother who worked nine hours that day
DO AGGRESSIVE DRIVERS SEE THEMSELVESand is rushing home to cook dinner, help with
AS SUCH?homework, do the laundry and spend a few precious
According to Dr. James and his research team, driversmoments with her children.
who consider themselves as almost perfect inCONCLUSIONS: If driving under the influence of
excellence (with no room to improve) also confessedimpaired emotions, you can make a personal decision
to significantly more aggressiveness than drivers whoto cope with your angry feelings in a more effective
see themselves as still improving.way. This will help you avoid aggressive driving or
What this means is that despite their self-confessedbecoming the victim of another aggressive driver.
aggressiveness, 2 out of 3 drivers still insist on seeingReducing your stress level and learning to change your
themselves as near perfect drivers with almost noself-talk are effective and powerful tools to cope with
room to improve. These drivers see the other guy asthe challenges of driving in our fast-paced society.
the problem and thus do not look at their own2005 Dr. Tony Fiore All rights reserved.